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Greeting with Salam is mustahab responding to it is wajib

Question 062: Why shouldn’t we greet fellow Muslims with Salam on Ashura day? Is it a cultural tradition or there’s an Islamic justification to this?

Answer 062: There is a tradition narrated from Ali bin Ibrahim from his father from al-Nawfeli from al-Sakooni, from Imam Sadiq (as) that the Holy Prophet (pbuh) says: Greeting with Salam (peace) is recommended and voluntary, but responding to it is obligatory.[1] The Prophet (s) also says: Do not give answer to one who doesn’t initiate saying Salaam before his speech.[2]

Arabic version of this hadith is as follows:

السَّلَامُ تَطَوُّعٌ وَ الرَّدُّ فَرِيضَةٌ.

  1. Greeting is one of the desirable acts that have been recommended. It is not makrooh (abominable) to greet someone from this perspective. However, according to some religious authorities (maraje’), if not doing an action such as shaking hands is considered in common view as a way of mourning and expressing grief, it is better not to do it.[3]
  2. Imam Baqir (as) was asked about how we should console each other on the Day of Ashura? The Imam answered: Say: May God increase our rewards as a result of what has befallen us through Hussein’s sufferings. May God make both you and us men who seek vengeance for him together with his great successor (wali), the Imam, the Mahdi from the family of Muhammad (a).[4]

The Arabic version of this recommendation:

“أعظَمَ اللهُ اجورَنابمُصابِنابِالحُسَینِ،وَجَعَلَناوایّاکُم مِنَ الطّالِبینَ بِثارِهِ مَع وَلیّهِ الامامِ المَهدیِّ مِن آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ”

  1. The word ‘Salaam’ has been mentioned 22 times and the word ‘Assalam’ 7 times in the holy Quran. Some of the verses in which the word has been mentioned are as follows:

– When they entered into his presence, they said,” Peace!”” Peace!” He answered,”[5]

– Certainly Our messengers came to Abraham with the good news, and said,” Peace!”” Peace!” He replied.[6]

– Peace is to me the day I was born, and the day I die, and the day I am raised alive.”[7]

For further information in this regards, please refer to the following answer:

Index: Ways to Greet in Islam with Muslims and Non-Mahram, answer 369.

Index:  Lamentation: Normal mourning for Imam Hussain (as), answer 049.

[1] . Kulainy, Muhammad bin Yaqoub, al-Kafi, Vol. 2, Pg. 644, H. 1.

[2] . Ibid, H. 2.

[3] . Tabrizi, Jawad, New Isteftaat, vol.1, p. 454, Qom, first edition (date and place of publication not known).

[4] . Tusi, Muhammad bin al-Hasan, Mesbah al-Mujtahid wa Selah al-Muta’abbed, p. 772, Fiqh al-Shi’ah, Beirut, first edition, 1411 A.H.

[5] . Surah adh-dhariyat, verse 25.

[6] . Surah Hood, verse 69.

[7] . Surah Mariam, verse 33.

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Getting Married on Wednesday / Praised or Condemned Days

Question 077: Asalamu Alaikum. Is getting married on Wednesday allowed in Islam? I read something that said it is makrooh to have sex or approach wives on Wednesday. Is that an authenticated hadith? Please let me know, as soon as possible. Thank you.
Answer 077: There is a tradition narrated from Imam Ali (as) in which certain days of the week have been praised while other days have been condemned. These are: Saturday is the day of beguilement and deceit, Sunday is good day for constructing, planting and wedding, Monday is the day of travel and business, Tuesday is the day of war and bloodshed, Wednesday is a sinister day, Thursday is the day of visiting the ruler and getting needs fulfilled and Friday is a good day of proposal and marriage. [1] Read More

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Whoever knows himself knows his Lord / Man Arafa Nafsahu, Faqad Arafa Rabbahu

Question 274: Salam, “Man Arafa Nafsahu, Faqad Arafa Rabbahu” One who truely knows himself has already come to know Allah. Could you please eleborate further on that? How can one know Allah if he recognizes himself? What does that mean? What is the “self” (nafsu) which makes us recognize God? Does this mean that if we recognize the true purpose of our existance in this world we have recognised God i.e True existance belings to Him because He is independant and Needless and He alone is worthy of being worshiped. Everything belongs to Him and under his control (InaliAllah wa ina ilayhe rajaoon)?

Answer 274: The Holy Prophet (PBUH) has said: “Whoever knows himself knows his Lord.[1]

The Arabic version of this hadith is as follows: Read More

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Permissibility of doing Matam for those passed away

Question 051: According to the hadith in the attached meme, from how I understand it, a person was killed and the Prophet Muhammad (saws) saw women doing matam due to the person being killed and he said for them to stop doing matam and only ghum and crying are accepted. So, is matam really allowed?

Rough translation of the attached meme, “One time the Prophet (saws) was passing from near Sham and saw women doing matam on a killed person. The Prophet (saws) called the owner of that qabila and asked him, why have you not told them that they cant do this; only weep and ghum a lot. Go and tell them to stop.”

Answer 051: There are many traditions narrated from our Infallibles (pbuth) in which we are allowed to do matam. Like what has been mentioned in Dua Abu Hamza Thumali.[1]

Given the supposition made in your questions, this Hadith is narrated from Imam Ali (A.S) not the Holy Prophet (PBUH). The following is the hadith I have translated it:

The tribe of Hamdan was one of the three tribes having the largest number of combatants in the army of Hadrat Ali (as). In one of the encounters in Siffin, members of this tribe, being on the right flank, had shown their unique firmness especially eight hundred from among their youth who remained steadfast till their last breath. One hundred and eighty of them were martyred and wounded; eleven among those who attained martyrdom were commanders.

When the Imam (as) was passing from Hamdan, He asked why they are mourning? Nasr replied: they are mourning for those of their family killed in Siffin Battle. Imam (as) has said, “I witness (and guarantee) that every one of them who were killed, were very patient and his Shahada (martyrdom) is accepted”. Then. Imam Ali (as) was passing from Sham (Syria) and heard some women mourning loudly. Harb Bin Syurahbil approached Imam Ali (as). The Imam has said to him: “Do your wives overcome to you? You cannot prevent them from mourning? Harb replied, “O Amir al-Momenin, if it was one, two or three persons we could do so, but one hundred and eighty of this tribe were martyred.” Imam Ali (as) said to him, “May Allah bless your martyrs.”[2]

The Arabic version of this hadith is as follows:

نصر عن عمر قال حدثني عبد الله بن عاصم الفائشي قال لما مر علي بالثوريين يعني ثور همدان سمع البكاء فقال ما هذه الأصوات قيل هذا البكاء على من قتل بصفين فقال أما إني أشهد لمن قتل منهم صابرا محتسبا بالشهادة ثم مر بالفائشيين فسمع الأصوات فقال مثل ذلك ثم مر بالشباميين فسمع رنة شديدة و صوتا مرتفعا عاليا فخرج إليه حرب بن شرحبيل الشبامي فقال علي أ يغلبكم نساؤكم أ لا تنهونهن عن هذا الصياح و الرنين قال يا أمير المؤمنين لو كانت دارا أو دارين أو ثلاثا قدرنا على ذلك و لكن من هذا الحي ثمانون و مائة قتيل فليس من دار إلا و فيها بكاء

The following verses of the Holy Qur’an tell us there is no problem to do matam for those who have passed away or have been killed.

In the Holy Qur’an Allah (SWT) says: And he turned away from them, and said, “Alas! My grief is great for Yusuf!” And his eyes turned white due to weeping [and he kept his anger within Himself.” They said, “By Allah! You will go on remembering Joseph until you wreck your health or perish.” He said, “I complain of my anguish and grief only to Allah. I know from Allah what you do not know.”[3] Thus, according to the Holy Qur’an, there is no problem to do matam.

For further information regarding other traditions in which such mourning is considered as makruh, please refer to:

– Mustadrak al-Wasael wa Mustanbit al-Masael Vol. 2, Chapter Mourning, Pgs. 456-457 & ….

Index: Mourning for Imam Hussain (as) while you are grieving, answer 047.

[1] . Mafatih al-Jinan, Dua Abu Hamza Thumali.

[2] . Biharul Anwar, Vol. 79, Pg, 89, Chapter 16.

[3] . Surah Yousef, verses 84-85 &86.

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Different Types of dreams: True Dreams and False

Question 561: Salamualekum warah matul laa. Please from the view of ahlulbat(as) at which time of the day does dreams comes true. True Dreams and False? At which time are dream considered satanic. At which time are dreams have equal chance of been true or not coming to pass.
Please help.

Answer 561: Although, time has no real effect on defining our dreams as the true or false dream, but the probability of being true or false can be determined in some of the times. In this regards, there is a hadith in which mentioned that those dreams have been seen in the third time of the night are of the true dreams. Because, the angels descend during this time.[1] Also, those dreams have been seen during the time when sleeping is considered as makruh are probably counted as false dreams, especially during the time of worshipping Allah, the Almighty when a person fell asleep due to the carelessness or being faraway from Allah (SWT).

Imam Sadiq (as) said: During the time of morning, sleeping is considered as sinister. It prevents sustenance from reaching you. A similar hadith has also narrated from the holy Prophet (pbuh).[2]

The Holy Prophet (pbuh) said: Dream is of three types: Sometimes, a good news from Allah, a cause of sorrow and grief from Satan and sometimes, it is kinds of different issues we think about them during the day, and that’s why we see them in our dreams during night.[3]

Dream is divided into three divisions:

  1. Those dreams that are related to the past and desires. Most of our dreams are of this type. These kinds of dreams have no special interpretation.
  2. Confused and unknown dreams. Such dreams caused by our imagination and hallucinations. So, these kinds of dreams have also no special interpretation.
  3. Those dreams that are related to the future or give evidence of the future. These dreams are of two types: A. Definite dreams that don’t require any interpretation as they would happen in the future. B. Indefinite dreams that need to be interpreted. These kinds of dreams can be categorized as the true dreams. But, we ought not to recognize whether our dreams are of the true dreams or false. Because, a dream is an imaginary series of events that everyone experiences in his mind while he is asleep. It is still not clear enough for scientists as to how it really takes place. The Holy Quran speaks about Joseph’s dreams which came true[4] and whom God taught the science of interpreting dreams.[5]

When in prison, Yusuf interpreted the dreams of his inmates and when he was out of the prison, he interpreted the dreams of the king of Egypt. Therefore, interpreting dreams or the allegorical explanation (ta’vil)[6] of dreams, as termed by the Quran, is a reality and a science which God, the Exalted, taught Prophet Yusuf.  Daniel was also one of the prophets whom God taught the science of interpreting dreams.[7] The Quran gives examples of other divine prophets whose dreams God confirm and endorses to have been true.[8]

We come across two kinds of dreams in the narrations:

Some dreams are true and some are false.[9] The true dreams have been described and termed as “one part out of seventy parts of prophethood”[10]. This science cannot be acquired as it needs purification and cleansing of the soul, and it is given to an individual only on specific circumstances. It is for the same reason that the number of people bestowed with this ability is few and far between[11].

How to interpret our Dreams:  

Imam Musa Kadhim (as) said: dream would be come true as how it has interpreted. According to a tradition, the king of Egypt’s dream was of such confused dreams[12]. Meaning that his dream had no interpretation, but when the Prophet Josef (as) interpreted the dream it had come true. Imam Kadhim (as) also narrated a tradition: At the time of the holy Prophet, a woman saw a dream that a pillar of her house has been broken, so she goes to the Prophet and explained her dream. The Prophet interpreted: Your husband will come back home safely from journey. So, her husband come back home as the Prophet explained. She saw the same dream and the Prophet interpreted the same. So, the same thing happened again. but, she saw it for the third time but before she explained it to the Prophet she told it to another one and he said: Soon, your husband will die. When the Prophet heard the news, He said: why this man didn’t interpreted a good interpretation.[13] In other sources it is said that when the woman saw the same dream for the third time she wanted to explain it to the holy Prophet (pbuh), but He wasn’t present on that time, so she found Abu Bakr and told him about the dream. When the woman met the Prophet, He said to her: your husband will die as Abu Bakr interpreted your dream.[14]

Therefore, the important thing is to interpret our dreams good as Imam Reza (as) narrated a Qudsi hadith in which Allah, the Most High says: “I am as My servant excepts of Me, so if he thinks good of Me then he will have it, and if he thinks evil of Me then he will have it.”.[15]

[1] . Allamah Muhammad Baqir Majlesi, Hilyatul Muttaqeen, Qom, Hijrat publication, 1994, Pg. 246.

[2] . Hilyatul Muttaqeen, Pg. 170.

[3] . Biharul Anwar, Vol. 14, Pg. 441

[4] – Yusuf (Joseph): 4

[5] – Yusuf: 101

[6] – Yusuf: 101

[7] – Majlisi, Behar al-Anwar, Vol.14, p.371

[8] – Saffat: 105; Fath: 27.

[9] – Kulayni, Al-Kafi, Vol.8, p.91, Dar al-Kotub al-Islamiyah.

[10] – Saduq, Man La Yahzoruhu al-Faqih, Vol.2, p.584.

[11] . Adopted from answer 5212.

[12] . أَنَّ رُؤْيَا الْمَلِكِ كَانَتْ أَضْغَاثَ أَحْلَام

[13] . Kuleini, Muhammad bin Yaqoub, al-Kafi, editor and researcher: Ghafari, Ali Akbar, Akhoundi, Muhammad, Vol. 8, Pg. 335, 336, Dar l-Kutub al-Islamiyya, Tehran, fourth edition, 1407 A.H; Majlesi, Muhammad Baqir, Mer’atul Uqul fee Sharh e Akhbar Aal e al-Rasool, editor and researcher: Rasooli, Sayyid Hashem, Vol. 26, Pg. 491, Dar al-Kutub al-Islamiyya, Tehran, second edition, 1404 A.H.

[14] . Jazri, ibn Athir, Mubarak bin Muhammad, al-Nihayat fee Gharib al-Hadith wal Athar, Vol. 1, Pg. 314, Esmaeeliyan publications, Qom, first edition, 1988; Zamakhshari, Mahmood bin Umar, al-Faeq fee Gharib al-Hadith, editor and researcher: Shams al-Din, Ebrahim, Vol. 1, Pg. 211, Dar al-Kutub al-Elmiyyah, Beirut, first edition, 1417 A.H; ibn Mandoor, Muhammad bin Mukarram, Lisan al-Arab, editor and researcher: Mir Damadi, Jamal al-Din, Vol. 5, Pg. 328, Dar al-Fikr Li al-Tabaat wa al-Nashr wa al-Tawzee, Dar e Sader, Beirut, third edition, 1414 A.H.

[15] . Al-Kafi, Vol. 2, Pg. 72; Sheikh Hurr Ameli, Hidayat al-Ummah ila Ahkam al-Aemmah (Muntakhab al-Masael), Vol. 5, Pg. 541, Majma al-Bohuth al-Islamiyyah, Mashhad, first edition, 1412 A.H.